Wednesday, November 22, 2006

walk on

cheryl asked me today which would i choose, to love or to be loved? initial reaction for me will be "to love" unconditionally and whole-heartedly..but when i think of it..whatever i may say, this answer will change over time in a way or another to "to be loved"..because it is human nature and we are selfish creatures..we take more than we give..and likewise we love almost always in hope of being loved in return..i know i am guilty of that..

i really miss the feeling of pampering someone..even though it might have been lonely shopping alone sometimes..it made me happy to know you would smile when you received whatever i got..whether you liked it or not, that's another matter! you can't do it with friends can you? i mean you can buy your friends stuff once or twice, but if you did that regularly, your friends'd tell you off "i'm not your girlfriend leh! you siao ar?" or think you're being gay (depending on their gender)..i know i'd freak out if a friend kept getting me gifts, nice as it may sound!

hai..i miss the feeling of sneaking a little snuggle and the closeness of a hug..

christmas is coming..i think it is high time to cheer up..even if i cannot attain the stage of "merriness"..though i do not honestly expect to receive any gifts this year..well because i've not been a really good boy that's why!

what would your answer be then? to love or to be loved?

and if the darkness is to keep us apart
and if the daylight feels like it's a long way off
and if your glass heart should crack
and for a second you turn back
oh no be strong..

and i know it aches
how your heart it breaks
you can only take so much
walk on..

you've got to leave it behind..

- u2

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

To love or to be loved? Hmmm... ideally it would be to love someone unconditionally and wholeheartedly. But then if you love someone too much you end up getting more heartache.

So it is still more blessed to be loved, especially for ladies, to be pampered by the guy who loves them.

Of course, the best scenario would be two-way, to love and be loved in return. Then that will be real bliss, isnt it?

Cher said...

I dun mind gifts! =))))))))

I think I'd like to love and to be loved in return.
Is that too greedy of me? I mean.. its nice to be loved.. but its a different thing altogether if you were loved by somebody whom you love as well? I strive for the best.
So greedy no?

Anonymous said...

but what if you only had ONE option? what would it be then?

cher: i already gave you two books leh! don't be a greedy girl! -koks-

Cher said...

:(((((((((((((((((((((((