Saturday, February 24, 2007

making friends out of nothing at all

norbit
@gv.tampinesmall
with.joanandmarie
feeling.sweetened

yes it is lame..yes there are a lot of chinese and black men jokes..yes it is eddie murphy..but it is sweet! :) i am just a sucker for the loser comes good sort of story..and that part where norbit confesses his love for kate in the church..it really warmed my heart..now that's love..

there are two sides to the story..one from my mum and the other from everyone else. my mum always tells me that i keep too much to myself and that i cannot make friends..and the ironic other side is almost everyone else thinks that i am easy-going, super sociable and in some cases, a casanova! like when i proclaim myself single, i tend to get this weird look and a shake of the head..from my friends, from my cousins, from my relatives..like why? and then comes the typical reply, "you know so many girls, don't be fussy la!" wah lao..oh by the way, my cousins have even gone to the extent of inventing girlfriends for me! can die..

the thing is, when i am in a good mood..i make friends easily..like i know this colleague sheena for just a few weeks and some people think that we already knew each other for ages and a few are even teasing us! goodness! or like the other day, i spent nearly half an hour talking to this bubble tea store auntie about the difficulties of setting up a business in singapore..ok, so she did most of the talking! or even last night when meeting joan and her friends, marie and fen! it probably helped that marie and fen were easy to get along with! but don't try to befriend me when i am in a lousy mood..the only thing you'll get out of me is probably a grunt and a sulk..i am just emotional like that..

so why does my mum think that i am a caveman? well, as most of my friends know, i can be pretty anti-authority and constant nagging and questioning will not get anything out of me..that's not to say i do not love my mum..i do, but i don't want question upon question upon question..it irritates me! to the extent that sometimes i simply switch off! i guess that's just the way parents are..

but it's not just a matter of making friends is it? it's about being a good friend and maintaining relationships..and even though i can't be there for all of them at all times, i certainly hope that i have been a good enough friend to my friends most of the time..not just a passerby...

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

late cny nights

16 feb, fri:

as previously reported..was at zouk for alex's my dreamd8 II competition..

reach home time: 0300H

17 feb, sat:
after reunion dinner at soup restaurant..


back at zouk with gabriel for mambo night (this is my first time by the way!) it was quite fun initially but then it got too crowded and the music just became irritating after a while..i am just more of a indie/rock music guy la..


reach home time: 0330H

18 feb, sun:
after mambo night..


caught a measly 30min snooze before i had to wake up to fetch chris and his family to the airport..trust me when i say that i had seriously thought of just sms-ing him to take a taxi! but how serious can i be when i have seriously no energy left to be really serious about thinking anything! serious la! anyway, i dragged my weary body out of bed and to his place in the end..for all my troubles, i received my first official angbao of cny 2007! it felt nice to have done something for a friend..but at that moment, all i really really felt was..damn tired..

reach home time: 0630H

20 feb, tue:
in the wee hours of morning..



just follow law
@gv.tampinesmall
with.jingxianandkenneth
feeling.highlyamused

i hate to say this but fann wong is really quite funny in this show! haha..wah lao..from molesting herself to scratching her privates to spreading her legs for the uncles to see! omg! some people detest jack neo's movies because they are lame and cut too close to reality for their comfort..but that's exactly the reason i quite like them. admittedly his storylines can be stale at times but kudos to him for always daring to project singapore as it really is..in our local dialects, in our local humour and our local dilemmas. and the best part is though he voices out the problems singaporeans face in our daily lives, he doesn't make it all doom and gloom either..which i suppose is part of the charm in watching a jack neo movie. anyway, if there is one very important thing jinxy and i learnt from the show, it is the real meaning of cc: and bcc: in emails..cc: means to "cover ca-chng" (cover backside!)..bcc: means "better cover ca-chng" so now you know why we always always always have to cc: and bcc: when sending out emails during work! haha..funny la!

reach home time: 0500H

after a long long weekend, tomorrow will come as a harsh reality check! the alarm clock will ring at the same time i have been getting home the past few days and it will be back to the grind of work..to those who are going back to work just like me, remember hor, send emails must cc: and bcc:! :P

it was all fun while it lasted! :)

Saturday, February 17, 2007

alex, my dream date!

oh my gosh! alex has won the singtel my dreamd8 II contest! that's like 5k in prize money and a trip for two to tokyo! way to go man! i think i am his lucky charm la..last night was the first time i bothered to go support him and look what he done! :P so much for a good friend eh? anyway, i am glad that i was at zouk to see him win! :) even though i seldom give him credit, i will honestly say that he deserved this. the other contestants had almost zero charisma; they basically sleepwalked around the stage like zombies! alex on the other hand wowed the crowd and glided down the stage like a natural! haha..sounds cool rite? well, trust me, he was cool! gab and i were like zbb (zhang bang bang)-fanatics last night man! hahaha..

but really, it was nice..it is always nice to see your friend accomplish something..and i am proud of him..even if it is something as lame as a dream date contest!

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

singles of the world unite

the day is almost over
i'll be in bed early, so it will pass faster
rather nightmares than sob this night away
so thanks, but no thanks to you, valentine's day...

- addy (14 february 2007)

what did i expect? that it would be easy?
but then, this was what i asked for wasn't it?

life is full of irony...

singles of the world unite
let's not go silently into the night
they can take our hearts but not our pride
we will not go down without a fight!

- addy (14 february 2007)

Sunday, February 11, 2007

enchanted by the "other" potter

another week has passed and work has progressed..from focusing on just a single project, more responsibilities are being passed onto me..i am not stressed out, just a little disoriented at times..but i get by..still! my manager, ginny and i had a slight disagreement on friday..she said sorry to me afterwards but i felt that it was my fault for overreacting..i am like that, just emotional about things. but we are alright now. she is like me, expressive and temperamental..it is nice to work under someone who shows her appreciation of your work upfront..though you'd be sure to know of her frustrations as well!

next week will be a special week for many; valentine's day and then chinese new year..but somehow it feels just like another week coming. valentine's day is just another 9-to-5 (8.30am - 7pm more like it!) working wednesday..and chinese new year? it used to be when i had this reason to bring all my friends under one roof and for my mum to show off her cooking..maybe not this year..i don't know..

"14th of february"

all the times you showed your care
you kept your promise and you were there
by my side in times of need
to comfort me to pull me through to succeed
come 14th of february we'll celebrate our friendship
to remind ourselves of all the precious things we keep
within ourselves locked inside our hearts
our friends, our love ones, people we'll never leave out in the dark
but then again is that beside the point?
that only on valentine's day, our friendship we learn to enjoy
i'll send you a card a bouquet of roses
i'll send you my love with hugs and kisses
but it's not only 14th of february it's not only for a day
cuz friendship and love is more than one valentine's day

AD (9th february '98)

friday:

runningwithscissors
@orchardcineleisure
with.hongliandhuiling
feeling.alittlelost

the show is based on the personal memoirs of augusten burroughs. growing up in the 1970s, young augusten (joseph cross) was living a middle-class existence with an alcoholic father (alec baldwin) and a bipolar mother (annette bening), an unpublished poet with delusions of becoming famous. when his parents divorced, augusten’s mother sends him to live with her wildly unorthodox psychiatrist, dr. finch (brian cox) and his eccentric extended family. running with scissors chronicles augusten’s survival under the most extraordinary of circumstances.

the storyline and the humour are really deep and dark..certain themes of the show will also make one feel uneasy (not in a bad way). the acting was good though..you could really empathise with the characters and feel their frustration, confusion and anger. that's not to say that it is a depressing show. but after a hard week of work, it was not something i could really appreciate.

saturday:

misspotter
@orchardcineleisure
with.gracie
feeling.enchanted

beatrix potter has delighted generations of children with her books. but she kept her own private life locked carefully away. oscar-winning star renee zellweger is now bringing her secret story to the screen in "miss potter," the first film directed by chris noonan since his charming 1995 movie, babe. it is set in the high summer days of late victorian and edwardian england, during which beatrix develops her natural skills as artist and story-teller. when she finally publishes her debut book, the tale of peter rabbit, she becomes a writing celebrity. it also leads to courtship and her first love with publisher norman warne, played by ewan mcgregor. their relationship and his marriage proposal in july, 1905, was to change beatrix's life for ever.

it was a love which she could not announce - or even talk about. in high-society london, her parents had insisted she keep it from friends and neighbours. they considered her proposed wedding a mismatch. warne, they said, was from 'trade' and demanded that she carefully reconsider their life together. beatrix allowed herself to be persuaded to leave her fiancé and london. it was supposed to be a time for reflection and calm. but, instead, she faced tragedy and loneliness and returned, with a different outlook. she became a woman of strong views and independence. she also built up a farming dynasty in the lake district - a dynasty over which she took charge long after her writing career virtually ended in 1913. it established her as a woman ahead of her time. despite becoming the world's most successful children's writer and a wealthy landowner and prize-winning farmer, she never forgot her first love.


now this is more my type of show..feel-good and magical..really really nice..the only thing which made gracie and i a little upset was "why did ewan mcgregor have to die?" haha..but even then, it did not take the shine off this delightful story! :) truly enchanting..

Sunday, February 04, 2007

f.e.c.

it is with pleasure that addy welcomes the newest member of the forever eighteen club...

happy 18

birthday

karen !!

Thursday, February 01, 2007

o-t

after so many days of overtime, my first project is finally over! phew..not that it was especially hard..but it was really tedious work..in fact i am beginning to quite enjoy being busy at work..it's damn tiring but at least keeps my mind off a lot of things..

if i should complain about work in a few weeks or months time, link me back to this post yeah?

i wanted to write something for yingmei who's been feeling down but i don't think it makes much sense..

take a look around when you are feeling sad
see the friends who are still on your side
when you are down and things turn bad
that's still no reason for you to hide
sure one or two may drop out along the way
but your true friends will always be around
getting wet with you during those rainy days
trying their best to make you smile
so wipe that frown now off your face
it's not cool to be so blue
the jury has decided that you have no case
to keep sulking as you do
as you can see you don't have a choice
no really, you have absolutely none
so gather your friends, stir up some noise
throw out your troubles and have some fun!

addy (01 february 2007)

what's that word again?

l-o-v-e?

don't even think about it!